Ideas for Baby Shower Messages Based on Your Relationship with the Parents-to-Be
Not sure what to write in a baby shower book? Have no fear! We have compiled some great tips to get you started.
Let’s take a look at some general things you can include in your message, no matter who you are giving the book to...
First, express how happy you are for them and their new arrival. It’s always nice to hear words of congratulations and support from those who care about you.
You may (cautiously) share any advice you may have about parenting, whether it’s your own personal experience or something you read that stuck with you. Don’t forget to include well wishes for a healthy and happy baby!
Whatever you do, don't share any negative opinions on baby names or hint at your own hopes or guesses for an undisclosed gender.
Here are a few more specific ideas for what to write in a baby shower book depending on your relationship to the parents-to-be.
For close family members
Sharing fond memories of the parents-to-be is always cherished. They will love looking back and reading about all of the inside jokes and fun times you’ve had together over the years. Consider writing the memory in the front cover of a book that related to a certain time or place. This one is really fun (and affordable):
First 100 Words from the 80s
If you are the grandparents-to-be, this is a great opportunity to share family stories and traditions that can be passed down to the new generation. Consider a book that reflects the life you had growing up, or mentions a skill you hope to teach the child. If you had a STEM career, there are some really fun books for babies and toddlers that make advanced concepts seem simple. This one from Baby Medical School is highly rated:
Bacteria and Antibiotics
If you’ve been friends with the parents-to-be for awhile, share some of your favorite memories of them individually and as a couple. What traits do they each bring to their relationship that make them perfect partners? This is also a great opportunity to give encouraging words about marriage and parenthood if they are new to both! How about a bite-sized book on an important social issue? You can write about that rally you attended...
A Is for Activist
For co-workers: If you are celebrating with colleagues, use this opportunity to wish the parents-to-be all the best in their upcoming transition into parenthood. If they are already parents, offer any words of wisdom or advice based on your own experience or observations. No matter what level of closeness you have with your co-workers, this is still a great chance to show your support for their growing family. A book about mindfulness might contribute to work-life balance!
The ABCs of Calm
A baby shower book makes for a unique and thoughtful gift that will be cherished for years to come! Not sure what to write? Use our tips as guidelines for what message will resonate best with the parents-to-be. From there, add your own personal touches to make it extra special. Congratulations and all the best wishes for their new arrival!
If you need some more ideas, check out this related post for more great books to give as shower gifts and advice on what to write!
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